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Bah Humbug

Wed Dec 5, 2007, 3:26 PM
I used to love the Holiday Season. Thanksgiving, Christmas...they used to be so much fun. I loved hanging out with my brothers, getting into trouble and eating traditional, home cooked food.

Nowadays, I'm beginning to really dislike the season. Thanksgiving always turns into a battle of wills between my wife and I about where we are going to spend the Holiday. For the last several years, we've been going to her family's celebrations, and that's cool. I like her family and get along with all of them. I'm usually bored beyond belief and don't have the comfort foods I grew up with, but I understand the need for my lady to spend special time with her family. Thing is, she doesn't feel the same towards me and my family. As a result, things got pretty heated around the house when I told her that I was bailing out on going to her sister's house. It got to the point that I was dreading Thanksgiving, and that's just not right. I couldn't take it anymore, and I stood up for how I felt. In the time since, she's cooled off and I think that she's come around to my line of thinking. I can't help but think that her family might've helped me in that regard, by suggesting it's perfectly okay for us to do separate celebrations. I've already told her that next Thanksgiving, WE'RE hosting. Shoot...I can cook. Like a MoFo.

And now here comes Christmas. There's too many problems to list for this one. I'll just list the majors. Like shelling out boco bucks for new tires. Safety first! Right? Yeah, but say goodbye to NFL playoff tickets and bigger ticket gifts. Then there's my boss who is obsessed with humiliating my colleagues and I, by volunteering us to perform for the office decorating contest. There's also the office party with forced mingling, which I've already pulled out of. I'd rather just work.

Who am I kidding? I'll bitch and complain, but I'll probably be singing carols with the rest of em, come Christmas.

  • Mood: Frustrated
  • Listening to: Hillary Duff, yeah I said Hillary Duff
  • Reading: December's C Agenda
  • Watching: the clock
  • Eating: a great sandwich
  • Drinking: diet 7UP

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lol. sounds like a fun holiday season XD

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I probably make it sound worse than it really is.

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Save the whales. We'll eat em last.
How frustrating that the holidays should turn to a battle of wills and wishes. There must be *some* compromise that's doable? Sounds like you may have found one though...especially if you're willing to cook :D

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The void breathed hard on my heart, turning its illusions to ice, shattering them. --Rorschach, Watchmen
It can be very frustrating. Usually I don't let it get to me this bad, but it's been a rough year, and I just didn't feel like making the trip just to be miserable. Christmas is shaping up much the same way. My lady's family proposed spending Christmas at Disneyland, which is just weird to me. It's a great place and all, but who wants to spend the Holidays in long lines and dispersed all over the grounds of a theme park? I'd much rather spend the day in a warm home, watching my kids open and play with their gifts, possibly followed up with a trip to a relatives. But that's just me.

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Save the whales. We'll eat em last.
Not just you. I feel the same. Especially since *everyone* goes to all the touristy places during the holidays...they're packed then. I'd actually be kinda surprised if the family could find lodging enough this late, to be honest. I hope you and your wife can figure things out :( :hug:

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The void breathed hard on my heart, turning its illusions to ice, shattering them. --Rorschach, Watchmen

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